As wife of the first president of the United States, Martha Washington had no examples to follow in her position as first lady when George Washington took office in 1789. Although she was reluctant to assume a public role, her willingness to do so contributed to the eventual strength and influence of the position of first lady.
Martha Dandridge, the daughter of well-known farmers, was born on June 2, 1731, on a plantation near Williamsburg, Virginia. She received a traditional education for young women of her class and time: basic reading and writing skills but greater emphasis on domestic duties, social graces, and the arts. In 1749, at age 18, she married Daniel Parke Custis, who was 20 years older and an heir to a neighboring plantation. During their life together she bore four children, two of whom died in infancy. Her husband's death in July 1757 made her one of the wealthiest widows in the region.
In the spring of the following year, Washington, then a young plantation owner and commander of the Virginia forces in the French and Indian War, began to court her and their relationship grew. The couple married at Martha's home on January 6, 1759. She and her children moved in with Washington at Mount Vernon, his plantation on the Potomac River.
At Mount Vernon Martha became known for her graciousness and hospitality. After her husband was chosen to command the American forces in the Revoltionary War, Martha spent winters with him at his various military quarters. There, she lived simply and encouraged other officers' wives to help in the war effort by being careful with money and goods and supporting their husbands. Martha’s arrival at Valley Forge during the winter of 1777-78 lifted her husband's fading spirits and gave him the strength to continue the fight. After the war, during which her only surviving son died from dysentery, Martha virtually adopted his two youngest children, and they substituted in many ways for the children she never had during her second marriage.
In 1789, shortly after her husband's inauguration as president of the United States, Martha joined him in New York City, then the national capital. She became known to Americans as “Lady Washington” and set the example of first lady as hostess for presidential events. The couple's rented home on Broadway also served as the president's office, exposing Martha to her husband's visitors and drawing her into political talks more than would have been the case had home and office been separated.
When Philadelphia became the seat of government in 1790 and the Washingtons moved to a house on High Street, Martha's hospitality became even more elaborate. The first lady took no stands on public issues, but she was criticized by some for entertaining on a scale too lavish for a republican government. The Washingtons, however, felt some lavishness was necessary to help the new republic be accepted as the equal of the governments of Europe. The couple also had rather informal get-togethers called “drawing rooms” every Friday.
The Washingtons happily retired to Mount Vernon in 1797 after completion of the president's second term of office. Martha continued to reside there following her husband's death in 1799. She burned all of their letters to one another in an effort to ensure lasting privacy. In 1800 Congress granted her a lifetime franking privilege (the right to free mailing), which it continued to grant to any president's widow who applied for it. Martha died following a bad fever on May 22, 1802, at Mount Vernon. She was buried beside George Washington in a family tomb on the estate.
Bibliography
"Washington, Martha Dandridge Custis." Compton's by Britannica. 2009. Encyclopædia Britannica Online School Edition. 20 Oct. 2009 <http://school.eb.com/all/comptons/article-9351338>.
Martha Dandridge, the daughter of well-known farmers, was born on June 2, 1731, on a plantation near Williamsburg, Virginia. She received a traditional education for young women of her class and time: basic reading and writing skills but greater emphasis on domestic duties, social graces, and the arts. In 1749, at age 18, she married Daniel Parke Custis, who was 20 years older and an heir to a neighboring plantation. During their life together she bore four children, two of whom died in infancy. Her husband's death in July 1757 made her one of the wealthiest widows in the region.
In the spring of the following year, Washington, then a young plantation owner and commander of the Virginia forces in the French and Indian War, began to court her and their relationship grew. The couple married at Martha's home on January 6, 1759. She and her children moved in with Washington at Mount Vernon, his plantation on the Potomac River.
At Mount Vernon Martha became known for her graciousness and hospitality. After her husband was chosen to command the American forces in the Revoltionary War, Martha spent winters with him at his various military quarters. There, she lived simply and encouraged other officers' wives to help in the war effort by being careful with money and goods and supporting their husbands. Martha’s arrival at Valley Forge during the winter of 1777-78 lifted her husband's fading spirits and gave him the strength to continue the fight. After the war, during which her only surviving son died from dysentery, Martha virtually adopted his two youngest children, and they substituted in many ways for the children she never had during her second marriage.
In 1789, shortly after her husband's inauguration as president of the United States, Martha joined him in New York City, then the national capital. She became known to Americans as “Lady Washington” and set the example of first lady as hostess for presidential events. The couple's rented home on Broadway also served as the president's office, exposing Martha to her husband's visitors and drawing her into political talks more than would have been the case had home and office been separated.
When Philadelphia became the seat of government in 1790 and the Washingtons moved to a house on High Street, Martha's hospitality became even more elaborate. The first lady took no stands on public issues, but she was criticized by some for entertaining on a scale too lavish for a republican government. The Washingtons, however, felt some lavishness was necessary to help the new republic be accepted as the equal of the governments of Europe. The couple also had rather informal get-togethers called “drawing rooms” every Friday.
The Washingtons happily retired to Mount Vernon in 1797 after completion of the president's second term of office. Martha continued to reside there following her husband's death in 1799. She burned all of their letters to one another in an effort to ensure lasting privacy. In 1800 Congress granted her a lifetime franking privilege (the right to free mailing), which it continued to grant to any president's widow who applied for it. Martha died following a bad fever on May 22, 1802, at Mount Vernon. She was buried beside George Washington in a family tomb on the estate.
Bibliography
"Washington, Martha Dandridge Custis." Compton's by Britannica. 2009. Encyclopædia Britannica Online School Edition. 20 Oct. 2009 <http://school.eb.com/all/comptons/article-9351338>.